Human language

Your love language and your romantic style according to your zodiac sign

Could this be true love? Yes, and it may even be written in the stars!

If I started studying astrology, it’s because I’ve always been fascinated by human relationships. Over the past few decades, I’ve discovered that you can learn a lot about someone’s romantic style and love language by looking up the zodiac.

Are you compatible with that cutie you just matched on Tinder, your celebrity crush, or your longtime partner? The stars have a lot to say.

First and foremost, the most vivid insight into a person’s love language can be found through a thorough natal chart analysis, but hey, you can still learn a lot just from their sun sign. Obviously, knowing someone’s Mars sign and Venus sign also gives more information. Because I am a pop culture astrologer this specialized in sex and love, let’s dive in!

ARIES (MARCH 21 – APRIL 19)

When it comes to dating, Aries is the zodiac sign of the conqueror! They are ruled by Mars, which gives them their bold and passionate energy. Quick to dive into relationships, this zodiac sign leads with their heart at all times. They can be quite romantic, eager to give and receive love. Authenticity is crucial for them in their relationships. Although they enjoy chasing their heart’s desires, they won’t pursue someone who seems unreachable. Instead, they prefer genuine, easy romance. However, just as they quickly fall in love, they can also fall in love with it. Adventure is important in their relationships at all times.

TAURUS (APRIL 20 – MAY 20)

As one of the most romantic zodiac signs, Taurus put their hearts into their relationships. When they fall in love, they expect the connection to last forever. Above all, they value the coherence, stability and integrity of their unions. When it comes to love languages, this earth sign is known for its tangible desires. They enjoy giving and receiving gifts, food, intimacy and luxury. These physical aspects not only help them show signs of their love, but also feel grounded in the mutual connection. As a zodiac sign, Taurus values ​​long-term unions above casual affairs. This desire to maintain the beauty of a connection can sometimes cause them to be a bit possessive. However, if a connection doesn’t work out in the end, it will take this bull a long time to move on and let go.

GEMINI (MAY 21 – JUNE 20)

As an air sign ruled by Mercury, Gemini crave relationships that boost their mental heights. Always eager for spontaneity and new horizons, this zodiac sign demands that romance be an adventure that pushes them to learn more about themselves and the world. Finding an intellectual equal with common interests will be of utmost importance to them. However, because they desire a lot of spice and flirtation in their seduction, they can also stir the pot when things get a little tame – ready to start some drama! Finding someone who can engage with them and debate without being mean will keep that fiery spirit on their toes.

CANCER (JUNE 21 – JULY 22)

As for the most sentimental zodiac sign, it is surely Cancer. This water sign is also one of the most sensitive and sensual, eager to find connections that fulfill them emotionally. In romance, these people seek an uplifting and sweet union and often develop these relationships slowly. Additionally, Cancers tend to take the emotional initiative in their personal lives, cautious about opening up until they know if they can fully trust the other. Affection is this crab’s main love language, but it also appreciates time, gifts, and the sharing of food. Domestic romance is deeply fulfilling for them, as they are always eager to build a home and be fed.

True love can be written in the stars.
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LEO (JULY 23 – AUGUST 22)

Love with a Leo is like vibrant fireworks! This fire sign yearns for larger-than-life romance. As true romantics who are enthusiastic and daring in all things, they crave someone who can match their intensity in this area as well. Leos also enjoy a bit of a cat-and-mouse dance in their relationships, eager to be revered and pursued. However, they don’t want to be caught by just anyone – they just like to be connected to someone who they believe is also of great value. Leos are also exceptionally cheerful, generous, and loyal. Romance is a top priority for them, so if they feel the spice has fizzled, they’ll soon look elsewhere.

VIRGO (AUGUST 23 – SEPTEMBER 22)

When it comes to love and relationships, Virgos always try to be a rock to others. As an earth sign, they value consistency and integrity in their unions. They can be wonderful givers, often sacrificing themselves for others to prove their emotions. It can sometimes even come at the expense of themselves, as if they want to be perfect for the other person. Virgos often take a slow road to opening up to others and deeply appreciate an intellectual connection with someone. This can sometimes cause them to take a casual approach to getting to know someone or even prefer to take action as friends before romance. But above all, Virgos are particularly caring, gentle and nurturing in romance.

LIBRA (SEPTEMBER 23 – OCT. 22)

When it comes to a zodiac sign that longs to be in a relationship forever, that one is Libra! Ruled by Venus and the zodiac sign that aligns with marriage and partnership, Libras navigate life in search of their perfect partner. They are natural romantics and like to mirror others who inspire and excite them. This can sometimes cause them to dive too quickly into relationships. When it comes to lifestyle, Libras crave to be surrounded by beauty, harmony, and luxury, so finding someone who will pursue those things as well will ignite their hearts on fire. As an air sign, they also need someone who can keep them on their toes and who will keep them intellectually intrigued with life.

SCORPIO (OCTOBER 23 – NOVEMBER 21)

As one of the most intense zodiac signs, Scorpios are “all or nothing” when it comes to romance. As a water sign, their emotions are fiery and deep, as is their love. Their passions should be ignited in relationships, as they see union as a catalyst for transformation and rebirth. Courtship is especially important to a Scorpio because they need someone who is willing to give them extreme levels of affection, attention, and resourcefulness. In this respect, Scorpio always plays in earnest and wants to make sure they don’t settle down. Love is also a form of power for them. However, since their emotions can fluctuate like the tides, they may find that their relationships sometimes become a battleground.

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Romance and relationships have a cosmic quality when you date the right zodiac sign.
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SAGITTARIUS (NOV. 22 – DEC. 21)

An eternal sojourner, Sagittarius sees love as an endless adventure. Often afraid to settle down or be locked in a cage, this fire sign calls for romance to be passionate and free. It’s crucial to find someone who respects their independence and interests, as well as creating a sense of friendship, trust and camaraderie. Filled with zest for life and not afraid of a little drama, Sagittarians will dive headfirst into a passionate affair or just as quickly leave someone in the dust! Due to their supreme curiosity and desire for endless stimulation, their ideal individual will be someone who enjoys living on the edge and can bring them deeply enlightening intellectual awakenings.

CAPRICORN (DEC. 22 – JANUARY 19)

When it comes to romance and love, Capricorns are one of the most strategic signs. Not known to be one of the most romantic, they are often attracted to people who can offer them something of value: status, money, opportunities, or family. Building a life with someone is important to Capricorns because they value consistency and stability in their relationships. In union, they are deeply loyal and can be quite affectionate, often taking their time getting to know someone before taking a deep dive – that is, unless they know from the start that someone is one has something he wants! Complete devotion is a top priority for this earth sign. Ultimately, finding someone who shares similar values ​​and interests will be crucial to forming a lasting relationship.

AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20 – FEBRUARY 18)

Of all the zodiac signs, Aquarians are known to be one of the most independent. Indeed, they are ruled by Uranus, the planet of freedom, and are an air sign, favoring logic and intellectualism over emotion. Although they are not inherently a romantic sign, they love dating experiences that fascinate their minds. This means that they may be attracted to unique relationships, people, tangles, or styles of union. Finding someone who can also ignite their intellectual hunger and need for stimulating communication is the love language of this zodiac sign. However, once they find someone they deeply appreciate, they can become especially devoted and loyal.

PISCES (FEBRUARY 19 – MARCH 20)

Ruled by Neptune, the planet of the imagination and known as the upper octave of Venus, Pisces are romantics on an endless quest for their greatest soul mate. This rose-tinted behavior can cause this water sign to dive headfirst into their emotions before they know exactly what to expect! In this regard, Pisces deeply craves to give and receive affection as they are one of the most sensual and sensitive zodiac signs. However, they too are prone to indecisiveness, they can be frightened if a love option pursues them too quickly! Pisces like to take their time in romance, feeling every beautiful moment of the journey. Last to note is that Pisces can also be extreme givers, seeking to save others or become martyrs in love. Healing their own heart is a top priority before diving into the next big relationship.


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Kyle Thomas is a globally recognized pop culture astrologer who has been featured on “Access Hollywood,” E! Entertainment, NBC and ABC TV, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Hulu, Bustle, Elite Daily, Marie Claire and more. He is known for his cosmic advice for celebrities, business executives and top influencers. His work harnesses star power when it comes to the entertainment lifestyle and trends affecting people around the world. For more information, visit KyleThomasAstrology.com.